Faith-based alternative for drugs, alcohol, behavioral problems

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Oklahoma’s only true Therapeutic Community!

A long-term residential Christian program for Recovery

main facilityJustin’s Lighthouse is a beacon of HOPE for women or men who suffer with an inability to handle life’s difficulties.

Spiritual solutions, NOT clinical or medical treatments set the foundations for this program.

We believe, and our success has proven that biblical principles offer a solution for every human malady.

Our typical resident has a history of;

  • Drug use
  • Excessive alcohol use
  • Defiant behaviors
  • Depression
  • Mental-illness

… and other dysfunctional behaviors to cope with the stresses of life. Some try to attempt changing on their own, but, without spiritual help, quickly return to old behaviors.

The majority of our residents have a history of multiple clinical treatment experiences, but couldn’t find success. The reason for this is simple; clinical programs do not spend the time, nor have the spiritual expertise to teach & guide a spiritually sick person to complete health.

Clinical programs barely scratch the surface of superficial areas & then it’s time to leave…

My little brother got discharged from a clinical treatment program after completing all of their assignments, workbooks, and therapy sessions…. And, he was dead 2 weeks later from a relapse of drugs! He obviously wasn’t ready to leave but that’s all the time his insurance would pay for.

JLCM was founded on priciples and common sense to avoid this very scenario. We DO NOT discharge residents UNTIL they are truly ready to live a successful life in recovery. We don’t keep score of units, hours, allotments, quotas, or any other ridiculous thing that serves to stiffle the process of recovery. You have my word on it!

“Certified” treatment programs are built around insurance companies & gov’t contract allocations. If a client doesn’t “get fixed” within the alloted number of clinical hours, then, too bad! How would an insurance company know how many “units” are required to change a human being?

The great news is; God doesn’t work on units or hours!

JLCM is built on God’s word & a “whatever it takes” attitude to affect change in every single resident!

Families know very well the frustrations and heart-break that go along with watching a loved-one make attempt after attempt to get sober… The encouragement of seeing early success and then discouragement from watching the repeating cycle of back-sliding.

We want to believe them when they say; “I’ve got it handled this time!”, “I’m going to be okay!”, “I’m done with that life-style!”…. But, then it happens all over again!

Attempting personal change without help rarely succeeds. The reason for this is simple, real recovery solutions can not come from the same thinking that originated the problem.

As Albert Einstein said; “It’s not possible to solve a problem with the same consciousness that created it”

In other words, If a person could ‘fix” themselves without help they would’ve done it by now! the idea that “This time I’ll be able to do it by myself” is what we like to call DENIAL THINKING… I used to think just like that, too! We won’t hesitate to call in a professional for plumbing problems, car problems, medical problems, and so on, but when it comes to life-problems we think we can deal with it on our own (even though we’ve had 20, 30, 40 yrs to fix ourselves without much long-term success.

Asking for help doesn’t mean we are failures. It simply means we finally recognize that we aren’t God, and it’s okay to allow others into our world to show us how to live this thing called LIFE!

RECOVERY SOLUTIONS must come from outside sources, new information, and an appropriate amount of time to make necessary changes. If the person who is struggling had it within themselves to change themselves, they would have already achieved it! Denial is a major part of the sickness. The person believes that ‘if only…’ THEN, they will be alright. This cycle of self-seeking solutions continues until the person comes to recognize that their problem is not in the external things of life, but rather, within themselves.. Thee way they think about their situation, relationships, failures, successes, and so…

Justin’s Lighthouse long-term recovery program is developed to ensure lasting recovery by addressing far more than a typical 30 day or 90 day clinical program is able to deal with in such a short time period. Decades of dysfunctional living won’t be resolved in just 90 days.

Our program is diverse, yet, simple.

Since addiction or alcoholism are actually symptoms of much deeper and unresolved emotional and behavioral issues, a successful program must address the actual core issues the led to the dysfunction in the first place… Not the symptoms but the real causes! 

The focus of our program is to facilitate a complete life-transformation. For each resident to change everything about the way they think, view the world, pass judgments, handle difficulties, developing realistic expectations, accepting others as they are, addressing the sense of entitlement, recognizing the self-centeredness in their behavior… all the while, addressing the core emotional problems that drive substance use and the dysfunctional life-style that follows.

… All this through spiritual principles.

Learning how to live free from the shame of the past, the regret from mistakes, overcoming discouragement, while applying new ‘life’ principles (including spiritual development).

COMMON SYMPTOMS

Depression, anxiety, lying, low self-esteem, inappropriate anger, manipulating, inconsistent work history, relational conflicts, and so on…, combined with an inability to handle life’s difficulties (usually involving not getting what they want when they want it) leave the addict in a constant state of seeking external escapes. If an “addict” isn’t willing to learn how to recognize and resolve deeper emotional conflicts within themselves, all the shopping, drugs, anger, demands, cars, or material things in the world won’t bring peace, better behavior, higher self-esteem, or healthier relationships.

The poor decision making of the addict/alcoholic is the result of a personal reliance on themselves to solve problems.

Statistics show us that most addicts are in fact, extremely intelligent. This high I.Q., past achievements, and sporadic accomplishments leave a person thinking that eventually they will “figure things out”. This makes it tough for families who are pleading with their loved-one to accept professional help. As a family member, you may have even heard in the past; “I don’t need that much help… I just need your help with getting a new car, a new apartment, a new job, etc…THEN, I’ll be okay!”


 

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PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS
Although the majority of our clients do have substance use issues (and even consider themselves to be an “addict” or “alcoholic”),  they don’t get better because we spend a lot of time talking about their favorite drug of choice or how stupid it is to get high or drunk (instead of going to work).

88% of our clients get better because are program teaches them how to face up to their own irresponsible behaviors-how to make their words have meaning-how to develop a spiritual life-style- how to live a life of purpose and accountability-how to become self-sufficient and, generally be transformed into a new person with a new outlook on life.

Real Recovery Requires Real Transformation!

Laying a foundation of lasting recovery requires a support team that is knowledgeable and experienced in the specifics of what your family is going through with the skills to present solutions from a spiritual perspective.

outdoor groups when weather permits

outdoor groups

We teach clients to think for themselves based on their own values and goals. Learning how to live up to responsibilities, regardless of feelings, is absolute key in growing up. While in dysfunction, values and goals are the first things to fly out the window when something more exciting comes along. This is due to immaturity and must change if a person is to sustain lasting recovery.

WE’VE BEEN THERE!

We too are a family of addiction and recovery with the professional knowledge and skills, along with the personal experience’s to help teach you and your family how to achieve success!

Lasting change only happens holistically;

MENTALLY

PHYSICALLY

SPIRITUALLY

EMOTIONALLY

With a non-denominational approach, we help each resident embark on their own personal spiritual journey.

APPROACH TO CARE

We believe, and research indicates, the lack of spirituality is the missing element within secular treatment programs that simply do not work. Conversely, many spiritual leaders are ill-equipped to handle the complexities and specifics of addiction, mental illness, and other emotional deficiencies.

JLCM is founded on expertise in multiple areas, including biblical counseling, behavioral disorders, drug & alcohol recovery, recovery support, mental-illness issues, socialization, inter-personal relationships and, residential care, all combined to address the complete individual.

The family dynamic is as important as helping the lone-addict. We know that the whole family has been affected by the behavior of one person, but the entire family needs appropriate opportunity to heal, as well.

Recognize these common behaviors of addicts/ mental illness?

  1. Easily Angered/ Anxious
  2. Low self-esteem
  3. Can’t sit still/ Easily boredLecture
  4. Lying
  5. Manipulating
  6. Being secretive
  7. Impulsive
  8. Avoids responsibility
  9. Isolates / would rather spend time alone, regularly
  10. Real intelligent but seems to waste it

Nobody wakes up one day and thinks…

“Hmmm, I think I’ll start using drugs this week”. Or, better yet, “I want to self destruct as quickly as possible”.

The choice to use drugs or self-sabotage is a result of not having the knowledge, proper coping skills, or emotional capacity to deal with the difficulties of life, in healthy, effective, and appropriate ways.

JLCM implements recovery solutions through common sense, professional expertise, and ‘lived’ experiences. Our entire staff is in recovery. Each member having overcome their own battle with addictions, mental-illness, and the family issues that arise from it. We know exactly how to help you and your family.

We’ve know first-hand, the fear, chaos, and dysfunction that families face when trying to save the life of a loved-one.

Our personal journey of recovery and professional credentials have enabled us to develop a recovery program for individuals and families that truly works!

FOR HELP TODAY, PLEASE CALL 405-248-2124, or email dr.milesklewis@gmail.com


JLCM is not certified as a substance abuse treatment center (nor do we want to be). We believe the Bible, not the State, presents a far more effective program for healing and living a life of fulfillment-joy- and contribution!

We are the alternative to clinical drug & alcohol treatment programs.

When used properly (not crammed down our resident’s throats) God’s word can heal drug & alcohol addictions, mental-illness, behavioral problems, and every other malady common among man.

Note: JLCM does support the role of medical science and makes referrals whenever the need arises. Many of our residents are under medical or psychiatrict care when they arive. We seek to accomodate these relationships by providing transportation & communication with healthcare providers for the best & most complete outcomes among our residents.

We look forward to helping your family heal!

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