Relapse is not a part of recovery,
it's part of addiction
It's common through the addiction process to have periods of sobriety, followed by more relapse. Every Addict has a predictable cycle that will always repeat until the core reasons behind those patterns are identified, healed, and reestablished.
We help people overcome long-standing histories of these sabotaging patterns, and we can help you, too.
Recovery is not a race to the finish
Traditional addiction treatment can leave newly sober addicts a false sense of hope - causing more damage than good. Many Residential and Outpatient treatment programs are treated like a race-to-the-finish, one-size-fits-all approach, which just doesn't work. While every patient is expected to adhere to a daily course of one intensive activity after another, patients learn to comply with this format to avoid conflict with the staff, but very little change occurs. It's not possible to adequately address hardline patterns of self-sabotage in such a fast-paced environment. Patients relapse in the 80% range, leaving families confused; "They did so well in rehab; we just don't understand why our family member relapsed after returning home" from rehab. Slowing the recovery process down is the most effective treatment style, allowing the patient to absorb what they are learning, gaining a deeper understanding of details that can be easily missed when 'in a hurry to finish'. Life-long behavioral patterns that set a course for short-term successes followed by failure are the hallmark of every addict/alcoholic. To achieve true, lasting change, the treatment patient must be allowed to learn, feel, even debate along the way, for healing to take its course and new behaviors to solidify. Addicts fail after rehab because they didn't change within. GOOD NEWS! Real change can occur within every treatment patient when the recovery process is slowed down for them to delve into the root causes that lead to addiction and other self-destructive behaviors. Outpatient programs aren't much different and can be just as exhausting and ineffective due to a lack of understanding of trauma among therapists who may focus more on problems and feelings instead of pain and solutions. Many patients are traumatized by their treatment experience and quickly return to old behaviors. We know this first-hand because the majority of our clientele has already been to multiple treatment programs without results. Justin's Lighthouse Recovery understands this dysfunctional dynamic, perhaps, better than any program, which is why we offer a completely different style of treatment and services. Being forced into compliance, labels and ideas are good for some people, but not all people. 4 key elements that bring about change and healing, every time: 1) Give space to slow down (not speed up) 2) Teach tons of new information that is relevant to the individual. 3) Provide a safe space to practice what they are learning while giving the body, mind, and spirit a chance to heal and recover. 4) Include the family throughout the process, offering them room for healing These are the strategies we implement every day for outstanding results. We look forward to working with your family for lasting change!
Unique program
for unique people
Addiction Looks Like Bad Behavior.
Dealing with addiction and mental health issues can be tricky, because the behavior can look so bad. In many ways, addiction and mental health issues can be more painful and confusing than dealing with cancer, because family members never know where they stand. Constantly giving in to the demands of the sick person, families can feel like hostages in their own own, while the sick person is playing out a mini-drama of denial and poor decisions.
If the patient had the capacity to solve their problems, they would have done it by now!
Oftentimes, family members keep saying 'yes' to the demands of the patient in order to keep the peace. Demands such as rent money, car payment, cell phone bill, etc. Believing that if the patient didn't have the stresses of eviction, or, no money, or no cell phone, they will magically overcome a lifetime of very real sickness.
Getting a new job, a new car, or, more money, has never, in the history of genuine addiction or mental illness, worked!
What does work every time?
When families draw the line in the sand and treat theses conditions as a real sickness. Seeking professional help to guide your loved one on a journey of emotional, mental, spiritual, physical, and psychological development.
Overcoming these issues is much deeper than simply changing the patient's situation. You've already tried that!
Changing the patient from inside out is the solution!
A complete transformation will require time to learn new information, space to process and apply, and courage to practice a new way of thinking and living.






Residential, Outpatient recovery treatment for individuals and families

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Residential, Outpatient recovery treatment for individuals and families
Welcome
Justin's Lighthouse is a leader in helping entire families and individuals who struggle with addictions or mental illness.
Our programs have lead the way for change among thousands of people searching for more effective solutions to real life problems. We implement strategies that impact our clients for the rest of their lives.
Like you, we seek lasting change, not simply a "short term feel good" experience.
Reach out today to find out how we can help you and your family!
Have you been traumatized by
other treatment programs?
We treat our clients like family, while
teaching what other programs don't.
More than just an
addiction treatment center
Are you ready?
Treating the symptoms of Addiction isn't enough
A whole host of mal-adaptive behaviors are in full swing by the time addiction or alcoholism is fully developed. The frustrating behaviors of addiction are actually the final stages of what has been a lifetime in the making.
All addicts/alcoholics see the world from their own "shame-based" perspective. Believing the lies they aren't 'good enough', life isn't fair, and, if everyone would just get off their back, then, they would be successful.
These are trauma-centered reactions that begin brewing at an early age. It doesn't matter how well a person was raised, Trauma-impact is about perspective, not reality.
The only thing that matters when it comes to trauma-impact is how the person interprets their experiences. If the person is predisposed to shame, then they will interpret most of their experiences with a sense of inadequacy. "People are against me", It's my fault", "I'm only as good as my performance", and so on.
When a person's sense of who they are is directly tied to their achievements, you will find a person who is constantly seeking to over-achieve while judging themself harshly for under-achieving... And, the cycle continues.
Achieving a lasting recovery requires;
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complete overhaul of the patient's self-image
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identifying the points of pain
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gaining insight into distorted reactions to pain (typically minimizing or flat-out denying it)
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developing new coping skills
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while reclaiming the themselves as a human-being
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discovering new purpose
Overcoming addiction /alcoholism takes a deep dive of personal exploration to uncover the truth of what's really driving a person's chaos. Treating only the symptoms of addiction will not hold up for long. The problems are much deeper!
Practical
Solutions
real recovery requires
real transformation

The majority of our clients have substance abuse issues, and even, consider themselves addicts. However, they don't get better because we spend a lot of time talking about their favorite drug of choice, or, how stupid it is to get high or drunk.
Our clients get getter because we teach them how to own their responsibilities, make their words have meaning, and develop a spiritual life-style. How to live with purpose and accountability - to become self-sufficient - and generally transformed into a new person with a realistic outlook.
Laying a foundation for recovery that sticks!
Addiction and the chaos that goes with it is a family disorder. It affects the entire family in ways that only people who have lived-it, first hand can understand. This won't change until the family does something different


















